BEING THERE FOR BOTH FAMILIES
Daukss played a key role as a reserve defender during her freshman season as Slippery Rock was primed to make its fourth-consecutive NCAA Tournament appearance after winning 13 of its first 18 games of the year heading into the national tournament.
With its spot in the tournament guaranteed, but opponent and location unknown, SRU awaited the NCAA’s annual selection show on the night of Nov. 11, 2013. While selection shows and bracket announcements had become common place for upperclassmen in such a successful program, as a rookie Daukss was waiting anxiously with anticipation early in the day.
However, just hours before the team was to meet for the show, a phone call would send shockwaves through Daukss’ world.
“I got a call from my dad while I was walking to one of my classes and he told me that my mom wasn’t doing well and that they thought she only has about a week left to live,” said Daukss. “I had class with Sam (Thorton), so I told her and she told my professor and Noreen.”
Daukss' mother, Ieva, was battling breast cancer.
She left campus to be with her mom, who was being transferred to hospice care.
“Noreen told me to take all the time I needed and that the team will be there when I’m ready to come back,” said Daukss. “I then headed home to see my mom."
While it would have been more than understandable for Daukss to stay home with her family during what was expected to be the final days of her mother's life, she was committed to being there for her new Slippery Rock family as well.
“Later that night was the NCAA selection show, so once I spent time with my mom and when they transferred her to hospice, I drove back to SRU so I could be with my teammates during the selection show,” she says. "They were all pretty shocked that I came back, but I wanted to be with my team.”
Daukss went to class the next day and tried her best to maintain her routine.
“The next day I still went to practice and then my brothers came to pick me up afterwards to take me home,” said Daukss. “Just before we got to the hospice care center, my mom passed away.”
Dealing with the shock and surreal feeling of losing a parent was an immensely difficult situation for Daukss to wrestle with. Staying close with her family was important to her in the hours that followed, but her family back at Slippery Rock never left her mind.
“I stayed with my brothers that night and then went back to SRU the next day. I wanted to try and keep as normal a schedule as possible, so I only missed one practice. My team was my family too, so they had my back 100 percent.”
Just a few days after her mother passed, Daukss cheered as Slippery Rock edged 24th ranked Shippensburg in the 10th minute of overtime to win its second round game in the NCAA Tournament, punching a ticket to the Round of 16. The game-winning goal, scored in the 100th minute, came off the head of Sam Thornton, the first SRU teammate of Daukss to find out about her mother earlier that week.
Next up for Slippery Rock was a trip to Albany, New York, where the College of St. Rose would host the Round of 16 and Elite Eight. But, Daukss had a difficult decision to make.
“It ended up that the Sweet 16 game was going to be the day before my mom’s funeral,” Daukss said. “I had a conversation with my dad and he said that if I wanted to travel with the team and play he fully supported me and that I could just fly home for the funeral.”
In Daukss’ mind, there was no other option. She needed to be with her team for the moment they had worked for all season. She boarded the bus with her SRU family and traveled to Albany.
Two days later, with Daukss coming on as reserve, Slippery Rock shutout rival California University (Pa.), 3-0, to advance to the Elite Eight.
Following the game, Daukss went straight to the Albany airport and flew home to attend her mother’s funeral the next day.
Less than 24 hours later, after one of the most difficult days of her life, Daukss boarded another flight headed back to Albany. While she battled with her emotions during the trip, she was reminded of how special her SRU family was.
Every member of the SRU travel party was preparing to meet Daukss at the airport when she got off the plane.
“The whole team, athletic trainers and communication staff included, showed up at the airport with signs to welcome me back and that was just what I needed,” said Daukss. “I can’t even put into words how much that meant to me. It was supposed to be a surprise but Lauren (Impey) sent a text in a group message that I was in that they were going to make signs in the hotel lobby for when they come to pick me up.
“Honestly, it was probably for the best I found out about it because I definitely would’ve cried my eyes out when I turned the corner in the airport and saw everyone.”
With the homecoming out of the way, Daukss turned her attention to the job at hand.
Slippery Rock was narrowly edged 1-0 in the NCAA Quarterfinals the next day, again with Daukss coming on as a reserve.
“The love and support I got from the team was incredible and they really made the hardest time of my life a little more bearable,” Daukss said. “I will forever be thankful for that, I will always have a very special and unique bond with every single member of that team and I love every single one of them."